In Loving Memory of Marie R. O'Day

October 16, 1931
Staten Island, NY
July 22, 2018
Fairfield, CT
Funeral Home

Spear-Miller Funeral Home

39 South Benson Road,
Fairfield CT US 06824

Visitation

2:00 - 4:00 PM

39 South Benson Road,
Fairfield,
CT 06824

July 29, 2018

Service

West Cemetery

Graveside Service

Boston Post Road,
Madison,
CT 06443

Monday, July 30, 2018 11:00AM

Cemetery

West Cemetery

Boston Post Road,
Madison,
CT 06443

July 30, 2018

Family Gathering

Charity



Marie Rita O'Day

Marie Rita O’Day, age 86, of Fairfield, CT, beloved wife of the late Joseph F O’Day, passed away peacefully in her home on Sunday, July 22, 2018 surrounded by her loving family. Marie, formerly of Madison, CT, was the daughter of the late John and Mary Addie.
Marie is survived by her two daughters, Joan Martino and husband Frank, and Kathy O’Day and partner James Orosz; her four grandchildren, Bradley Coutermash, Abigail Hewitt and husband Tyler, Bryan Coutermash, and Brittany Coutermash; her nephews John and Eddie Vanvalkenburg, and niece Mary Vanvalkenburg. She is predeceased by her mother, father, and sister, Janet Vanvalkenburg.
Marie, known lovingly as “Ma” by her grandchildren, enjoyed spending time with her family, reading, knitting, doing puzzles, and traveling to new places. She was an avid fan of the New York Yankees. She loved making her friends and family laugh and was always smiling.
Friends may call Sunday, July 29, 2018 between the hours of 2 and 4 p.m. at Spear Miller Funeral Home in Fairfield. A graveside service will be held Monday, July 30, 2018 at 11:00 a.m. meeting directly at West Cemetery in Madison, CT.
For more information or to sign an online register, please visit www.spearmillerfuneralhome.com

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10 Guestbook Entries for Marie R. O’Day

  1. If Roses grow in Heaven
    Lord, please pick a bunch for me.
    Place them in my Mother’s arms
    and tell her they’re from me.
    Tell her that I love her and miss her,
    and when she turns to smile,
    place a kiss upon her cheek
    and hold her for awhile.
    Because remembering her is easy,
    I do it every day,
    but there’s an ache within my heart
    that will never go away.

    I miss you so much, I love you Ma!!!

  2. I am both honored and privileged to have spent the last 3 years as Ma’s caretaker. Most days seem to blur together as one, but I wouldn’t give back a single one. Ma made every day for me worth living. Her sometimes sweet and sometimes sassy comments never ceased to put a smile on my face. We grew a bond these last few years that is priceless. Ma thinks that I was helping her when in reality it was she that helped me. She taught me patience, compassion, empathy, selflessness. The list goes on. Not many people have the privilege of having a “job” that pays you to spend each day with your best friend. I would give anything to have just one more day with her. I love you Ma. We’ll be together again some day.

  3. Missing you terribly, Ma. <3
    It was an absolute honor and privilege to know you and to love you for the past 28 years. I still listen to all the voicemails that you've left me and I can't stop watching the countless silly videos we have. Thank you for always for making me laugh and for showing me unconditional love. You've taught me so much and if I become half the woman you are, I would be so lucky. I would give absolutely anything to be able to hear your voice one last time. I love you with all my heart. Forever and ever. When I count my blessings, I count you twice. <3

  4. Ma was one of the sweetest people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. From the first day of meeting her she made me feel welcome in the most natural way possible. She would always ask about Casey (my son), and was completely genuine in her curiosity. It is such a sad loss, but my life was made brighter in the time I was able to spend together with her and her family.

  5. Marie “ma” was a beautiful soul, always cheerful, and full of fun energy. She will be so very missed <3 my condolences to the entire family. Love you all

  6. Ma made people smile for 86 years, including her grandkids for the last 30. She will be missed by many!

  7. Dear Kathy, Joan and Families,

    So Sorry for your loss. Praying that God’s peace that passes all understanding will comfort you.

    Love,

    Debbie & Chuck Van Etten and Family

  8. So blessed to have know her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love the Palaias

  9. Kathy I am very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. ❤️

    Leslie