In Loving Memory of Jay Mildrum

March 03, 1954
Staten Island, NY
February 08, 2019
Fairfield, CT
Funeral Home

Spear-Miller Funeral Home

39 South Benson Road,
Fairfield CT US 06824


6:00pm - 8:00pm

39 South Benson Road,
CT 06824

February 13, 2019


Our Lady of the Assumption Church

Mass of Christian Burial

545 Stratfield Road,
CT 06825

Thursday, February 14, 2019 10:30am


Family Gathering


St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

Robert Jay Mildrum

Robert “Jay” Mildrum, 64 of Fairfield, passed peacefully on Friday, February 8, 2019. He is survived by his devoted wife, Julie (nee Bond); loving son, Michael (Lauren); beloved mother, Carol (Vinnie, deceased); brother, Jeff; and sister, Barbara. Jay graduated from Western New England College and received his Master’s Degree from Pace University. He worked as an auditor in the reinsurance industry. Jay was an avid fan of the New York Yankees. Friends may call on Wednesday, February 13, 2019 from 6-8pm at the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Rd., Fairfield. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, February 14, 2019 at 10:30am at Our Lady of the Assumption Church, 545 Stratfield Rd., Fairfield. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Pl., Memphis, TN 38105 or For information or to sign an online register, please visit

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2 Guestbook Entries for Robert “Jay” Mildrum

  1. Dear Julie, Mike, Lauren, Carol and family,
    Sending our heartfelt condolences to all of you during your time of sorrow.
    With our love and prayers,
    Gina and Tom Curtin & family