In Loving Memory of Noelle Jeanine (Whalen) DeLieto

April 04, 1966
New York, New York
May 23, 2018
Meriden, CT
Funeral Home

Spear-Miller Funeral Home

39 South Benson Road,
Fairfield CT US 06824


Spear-Miller Funeral Home, Thursday 4-7 PM

39 South Benson Road,
CT 06824

May 31, 2018


Thursday, May 31, 2017 4-7 PM


Family Gathering


BONES Beagle of the New England States

Noelle Jeanine DeLieto

Noelle Jeanine DeLieto née Whalen, age 52, of Meriden, Ct., passed away peacefully in her sleep on Wednesday, May 23rd. Noelle was born in New York City and grew up in Huntington, Long Island and Trumbull, Ct. She loved studying genealogy and history, traveling and was an avid reader. Noelle was a loving daughter to William and the late Carol Ann Whalen, sister to Kelly, Kimberly, Paul and aunt to Tuesday Rose Whalen. Friends may call on Thursday, May 31st from 4-7 pm at The Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield, Ct 06824. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to BONES Beagle of the New England States in Noelle’s memory.

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16 Guestbook Entries for Noelle Jeanine ( Whalen) DeLieto

  1. My condolences to Noelle’s family and friends. She was a very dear friend to me for many years, and she will be sorely missed by myself and many others.

  2. My thoughts are with you Noelle, too early to leave our world, but so happy that you are travelling the road with your dear husband! Miss you Noelle!

  3. Noelle, my wish for you is that you have found Stephen, your supportive and loving husband, and together you remain in love, are pain free and and feel peace in heaven. I hope you and Stephen know that your beloved dog, Seamus, is being taken care of and will be loved. I was blessed to know you through the Shamrocks and Stones online book club where your posts made me laugh and enjoy reading books along with you and the others. Your contributions counted girl! Now, I’ll have fond memories of discussions, our love for Martha, of our Shammie road trip and of absolutely necessary trips to temple based on your most excellent recommendations. Rest In Peace Noelle and Stephen.

  4. I was so sorry to hear of Noelle’s passing, so soon after her husband. We never met in real life, but she was a daily prescence in my online life. I will miss her humor and wit and love of books. My condolences to all who loved her.

  5. Noelle, Stephen and Seamus…. are examples of what love is all about. Their fierce devotion to each other in good times and in bad was evident to everyone that knew and loved this couple. Friends of Noelle were always captivated by her stories and her love for her husband and furbaby. So happy money is being donated to B.O.N.E.S, and that Seamus is being looked after.

  6. My dear Lallypal. It’s funny how you can only know someone as an online presence and still love them dearly. You were my almost birthday twin (4/3/66), and you adored my sweet Great Pyrenees Willow, and we shared our love of Outlander and the Ladies of Lallybroch. Rest in peace my friend. You will not be forgotten. Hosers Rule! 💖

  7. Noelle, you were fierce, funny, witty and took on life with no holds barred. I will treasure the many memories from our time hanging out in the Catskills with the other Shammies and reading your posts about Stephen and Seamus (and the joy they brought to you every day). You will be missed, girl.

  8. Noelle and I grew up on the same street in Huntington. I have known her my whole life. Her and her family are so much of part of my childhood memories and though there were many years and many miles between us, we stayed in touch right up until last week. I reached out to her after hearing about Stephen. I’m glad I had the chance to tell her I loved her one last time. Noelle, I will miss you my dear friend.

  9. my deepest sorrow to both Noelle’s family…she was a dear friend from Wooster street where I met her and steve….and later working with them both at brewery street…I know thwy both are in a better world//

  10. “It’s so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone.”
    ― John Steinbeck

    The friends and family of Noelle have lost a light. Noelle was a true force and light of many lives. She will be missed on this earth, but I find comfort knowing that she can now hold Stephen’s hand as they enjoy the afterlife together.

    You were not alone. You were a gift to all who knew you. May you rest in peace. <3

  11. Noelle was a close friend of mine and we have lost touch over the years but I have so many fond memories of her and we had so much fun together. She was a wonderful person , my deepest condolences to her family.

  12. I’m so sorry to hear of Noelle’s passing. I worked with her for many years at the Wallingford Post Office and she was always fun to be around. She will be missed. I hope she is with Steve and they are at peace. I’m glad to hear that Seamus is being taken care of too. They loved him so much. ❤️💐

  13. My Dearest Uncle Bill and Family,
    Tonight I learned of your devastating loss and I am heart broken for you all. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers and I am so saddened to hear of this news. May God be with you all.

  14. I am so shocked and saddened to just have learned of Noelle’s passing! I moved to Myrtle Beach,SC 3 years ago but still kept in touch with her. I worked with her in my beauty salon on Wooster Street for several years. She was a great hairdresser & friend. RIP Noelle & Stephen.